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KB goes to Botswana 4/15/07

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April 19, 2007

South Africa

Hello Everyone,

The last couple of days have been awesome. The Peace Corps staff gets major kudos on all the have done to prepare our staging as well as the flight here. We arrived in south Africa on time and the flight was very nice. We were met at the airport and were safely brought to our hotel-it is really nice by the way. All of our luggage got here safely. I have pictures that I will upload at another time. There are 43 volunteers from all over the United States. Our next step is Botswana tomorrow morning. All of us are very excited to meet our host families. I will update soon!

April 10, 2007

Countdown

Wow I can not believe that I will be in Africa one week from today and not coming back for two years. Well it is countdown to staging, which begins in Philly on 4/16/07. So many last things to do. Two papers, One presentation, One comp exam away from finishing my requirements to my MSW degree-My God I can't wait until that is over! I have to make my last trip to Wal-Mart and finish packing my things.

Here is how the next couple of months will go. Monday April 16, 2007 is our staging event in Philadelphia. There we get to meet the group that we will be working with for the next two years. From my understanding it will be a group of 20-30 people from all over the United States. So Monday morning I will be on the train to Philly for the beggining of the journey. The staging consist of an intense briefing on Botswana and the Peace Corps. Wednesday we will actually fly to Johannesburg, South Africa-a 17 hour flight. We get to rest there in a plush hotel to recover from jet lag. The next morning we will take a motor coach to Botswana-a 6 hour ride. Once in Gaborne the capital of Botswana we will stay in an economy hotel-they specified economy (LOL) for three days. From there we will have a luncheon and meet our host family that we will live with for three months.

We are allowed to carry two 50 pound checked bags and one carry on. Once we meet our host family the Peace Corps will take and hold one of our 50 pound bags until we get out of the three month training. So I am trying really hard to decide what to put in the bag that I do not get to have for three months-what a dilemma right. During training we will learn about the culture, learn some of the language which is Setswana, and learn about our actual job function.

Well here I go about to pull a late nighter trying to finish a paper. I can not wait until next week but I must honor the process!

Peace-Martha

March 09, 2007

Reailty of The Journey

March 10, 2007; 1:20 AM

Right now I am sitting at work reading a former Peace Corps Volunteers blog who was in Botswana from 2004-2006. The reality of the experience that I am about to set out to do is becoming more real for me. The reality that in a little more than I month I will be several miles away from ‘my life’ as I know it, is real. A special person told me that they were sad today with thoughts of me leaving. I quickly tried to brush it away because the thought as well made me sad and with all my preparations right now I continuously try to ignore the sad thoughts-Know that I am sad with all of you and I pray that God makes the transition as beautiful and peaceful as it can be. It amazes me that whether we are aware of it or not grief takes place when people leave out of one's life in some form or another. Right now I grieve as I think about missing my brother’s graduation. I think about missing my goddaughter’s first steps. As I think about the two weddings that I am supposed to be in that I will only get to watch the video footage. A tear cries out as I miss my long talks with my best buds that reenergize me and keep me focused- Who else will accept my calls at 7 in the morning or 12 at night. I will miss the outings to the park with my godchildren. My heart already begins to long for Sundays at church and then a visit to my parent’s house or at other good friend’s homes (that’s the one day that I usually can be guaranteed a real meal prepared with love and good family conversation (as I can cook but it is not on my bachelorette’s list of favorite things to do). Thoughts of how my space in others lives will be missed is also connected with a feeling of sadness.

Sitting here thinking I know that while the first couple of months I will miss and be missed, soon healing will take place. God will connect me with others and my family and friends with others. My clients will get new therapist and my teachers will have new students. The times and seasons in our lives will move forward. People will get used to me being gone and I will get used to life in Botswana. Our kindred spirits will never fully disconnect because they were formed from love, though relationships will change. Things that I love to do today I may never do again. Things that you love today you may never revisit. I will comeback with memories from a place that no one in my community now has experienced with me. I will have jokes and stories that others will listen to but will soon get exhausted of countless recounts of Botswana. My experience will then be in the treasure box of my memories, pictures, journal entries, my blog, and an occasional conversation with others who were a part of my Peace Corp journey. I will too hear stories of life and changes that took place while I was away, that I will long to reconnect with but will somewhat not be a part of because I was not there. Life is an interesting journey to be a part of.

The reality that in less than I month I will look death in its face on a daily basis. Knowing as I read her blog, that I will witness families who are dying from malnutrition. While I have seen people here die from AIDS the statistics there are different and people are dying in larger numbers. As my desire is to go and be a blessing the reality that I can not stop the pandemic and that cultural factors may keep me from many breakthroughs with my new clients. Knowing as this former volunteer says, that HIV + mothers still refuse not to breastfeed their children and are transmitting the disease to their babies. By no means do I feel defeated but I am glad that I was able to read these facts and deal with what I am about to do with more realness and less nostalgia. Accepting these things prior to my departure will help me to pray for the strength to deal with homesickness as well as the new level of death and life that I am about to come across. Right now I pray that God touch those dealing with HIV/AIDS, poverty, and hunger in Botswana. I pray for the other volunteers that will be accompanying me on this journey, that we will have strength to endure this magnitude of change. I pray comfort to my family and friends who feel the grief and sadness of me leaving for this period of time. I pray that God will show me purpose while on this journey and that what I do will glorify Him-In Jesus name I pray

Peace and Blessings Martha

February 24, 2007

Aspiration Statement

The Peace Corps ask you to answer questions in an aspiration statement that will be sent to your host country. I am placing it on this site to explain more of why I chose the Peace Corps and what my desires are as I venture to Africa.

Aspiration Statement

A: 

As a trained professional social worker, I plan to enter my Peace Corps service with a sense of enthusiasm, a spirit of advocacy, and an appropriate level of beginner’s confidence. The experience that I have acquired in my many care giving employment opportunities, as well as from educational internships, has allowed me to expand my knowledge base. For example, at Johns Hopkins Hospital I was able to expand my knowledge and practice experience in the area of cultural competency. There, as a BSW social work intern I had clients from all socioeconomic and ethnic backgrounds; I also learned to work from a strengths perspective when dealing with their medical issues. While working at a homeless shelter (that often had limited resources) I learned to be flexible and use my gift of innovation and creativity to engage my clients through poetry, story telling, music, as well as other resources that would help in their treatment process.

At that same shelter, I became an HIV outreach counselor and was able to attend several trainings on HIV/AIDS and work with those infected and affected by the disease. Later, I was promoted to the role of a supervisor where I acquired management skills. Those skills included managing people, leadership, delegation, problem solving, project planning, oral communication, as well as a host of other attributes. At my current MSW internship, The Stone Foundation, I have learned to refine my social work skills in active listening, accurate documentation, understanding human behavior, program assessment, evaluation and implementation.

While in my Peace Corps service I aspire to empower people as well as be empowered. There I plan to be just as open to teaching as I am to learning the culture and strengths of the people of Botswana. With my skills I hope to be able to positively add to the rich legacy that the Peace Corps has with the government and people of Botswana.

B.

            My strategy for working effectively with my partners in Botswana is to be open- minded. While I have read several pamphlets, articles, and books on the HIV pandemic and the culture of Botswana I know that until I arrive I will not have a full grasp on the scope of work that we will set out do. I believe in teamwork and being a fully active member of that team. I know that I will have to be patient while learning the new systems and regulations that my partners in Botswana will teach me. I will also have to be appreciative of each step of that learning process because I know that difficulties may arise.  I will listen attentively and also ask pertinent questions during the training process. I will applaud the efforts of my partners as we grow in this process together.

C.

            As I adapt to the culture of the people of Botswana I plan to use my own African ancestry to help me through this process. As a child of parents from Sierra Leone, I am very open to people from different backgrounds. I am very eager to learn and interact with people from other cultures and ethnicities. I value differences between people, which I believe will help me to adapt. Growing up in America, with parents who were foreigners has allowed me to be very sensitive to diversity. I understand that while people have several religious and cultural differences, the common ground to dealing with people is respecting them. I have learned to be secure of my own beliefs without imposing my beliefs upon others. I believe that these abilities will help me to adapt comfortably in Botswana.

D.

            During my pre-service training I hope to gain first hand knowledge of the people of Botswana. I would like to acquire an understanding of the values that those in Botswana hold dear to them. I anticipate learning basic words in their language, as well as the learning the culinary specialties. Developing the ability to navigate the town where I will be placed is something else that I look forward to; it will be an awesome adventure. I will use my social work skills to help me understand what is important to the people of Botswana; what they need me to help them do, what their goals are, and how they envision accomplishing their goals. I know that it is essential that I not impose my way of problem solving but rather I learn how problems are solved and issues are resolved by Botswanians. While in training I would like to get a grasp on the work that I will set out do. Beginning to form sustaining relationships with all those that I will be working with is important to me. I believe that positive networking will be the basis for all the work that will be preformed during my stay in Botswana.

E.

            On a personal level I believe that the time I spend in the Peace Corps will forever change my perception of life. Just the mere thought of volunteering in another country for two years excites me, so I trust that the actual experience will multiply that feeling considerably. Upon my return I hope to be more aware of my strengths and values. I hope to be able to share this journey with family, friends, and colleagues, with the hope that they too will get excited about the opportunities that Peace Corps service offers.

            On a professional level I will gain confidence and independence. There I hope to sharpen my leadership skills as well as gain the ingenuity to work in unfamiliar circumstances. Serving in the Peace Corps will make way for employment possibilities that are limitless. As an addition to my formative social work training, I will have first hand training with working with those outside of the United States.

Not All About Me

Water

Well I slightly mentioned how I came across the Peace Corps but I want to go into more detail about why. As a child growing up in America with all African family I always had a different perspective. While I was able to assimilate very well because I have very strong supportive parents I always had a longing to be on the African Continent. I was able to visit Sierra Leone in 2002 and it was awesome. That feeling is one I can not put into words. Meeting your brothers and sisters (as the Mende often don't use the term cousins) was beautiful.

As a child I have always had the desire to assist people with their needs. I always wanted my friends to be unified and I often was the peacemaker. I know that is why I was lead to Social Work. At twenty-one I began to work at a shelter that was for clients who had HIV and were homeless. At twenty-one I did not realize the wealth of knowledge that I was going to acquire while working there. I just wanted a job other than the awful security uniform that I had to wear. There I learned about HIV not just as a pandemic but as a human spirit. I loved my clients and they taught me more than I believe I assisted them. I experienced HIV, homelessness, substance abuse, mental illness, and how life can be painful but how love really does heal. I watched people whose family abandoned them because they had an illness. I cried when clients would move to the next dimension. It was named a shelter but it was home for the clients and me. I was there 40 hours+ a week and even on the hard days I was blessed.

My innate desire to be a part of others healing, the realness of the effects of HIV that I experienced, my longing for Africa, and my desire to experience newness all led me to the Peace Corps. I wanted to be able to serve while I still had the freeness of being a bachelorette. I wanted to change in a way that only being in a new environment can do. If you know the story of Abraham, thats what I know it is like. God calling you away from everything you know to go to another land for reasons that I do not fully comprehend. So hopefully you now understand why!

Peace and Blessings

Martha-My life is not all about me (A Lesson from God!)